21 Things I am Looking for, in My Guy :D

Guy: “Girls who have studied literature can never fall in love”

Girl: “Of course they can, the only problem is, they fall in love with fictional men, who don’t exist anymore!”


It cannot get truer than this, when I sit and think what kind of a guy I would like to be with for the rest of my life…what kind of guy would I fall in love with…it’s the hardest thing to do! The more I think, the more I feel like I am looking for a miracle. I think the age we are at, everyone would be able to empathize with me. So let’s get it right (or at least try)

Presenting, 21 things I am looking for ๐Ÿ˜‰ Someone who…ย 

1. Can handle my craziness (or be crazier)


or says…


2. Is my best friend before anything else ๐Ÿ˜€

best friend2

3. Can make me smile & will do whatever it takes to bring it on my face…n vice verse of course ๐Ÿ˜€


4. DREAMS & believes in my dreams too!


5. Never ever thinks of letting me go

never let me go

6. Can handle me at my worst!


7. Gives me small surprises every now & then ๐Ÿ˜‰


8. BIG surprises sometimes as well ๐Ÿ˜€


9. Flirts with me…keeps the spark alive!


10. You Complete Me…I mean who doesn’t want this?


11. Wants to travel the world with me!


12. Says “I love you!” & means it


13. Treats me like an equal


14. Can act like a kid with me &ย ย has no qualms admitting that he needs me as well



15. Loves his family, n mine too


16. Remembers everything – the smallest of details


17. Sometimes would open the door for me, appreciate me, compliment me…sometimes chivalry is needed


18. Respects and understands – the relationship, the boundaries, etc. etc.


19. Accepts mistakesย – his and mine


20. Accepts me the way I am and is actually proud of it!



21. Finally, someone who trusts me, has a good sense of humor, reads, enjoys my company, wants to go out of the way for me, shares everything and is comfortable in being his own self!



These are a lot of expectations and I totally understand that. I also accept that I should have all these traits too, if I expect them in him. But I also believe in the concept that –

You should always aim for the moon, so that even if you don’t get there, you will land up somewhere among the stars ๐Ÿ˜‰

Hope you enjoyed reading…all in good spirits, guys!


P.s.- Gif credits – all over google!


6 Comments Add yours

  1. Amazing synopsis of what women need.I really enjoyed reading it!Cheers!!

  2. poonam pathela says:

    Awesome read.Racy yet rings true.Hold on to your dreams…….

  3. Rashmi says:

    I thnk I cn definately get wat u wan in ur guy, caz my better half I.e. my husband has almost all d qualities dat u hv mentioned. ๐Ÿ™‚
    Leav 1 or 2 out of it… ๐Ÿ˜‰

    1. That’s lucky ๐Ÿ˜€ ..touchwood!
      Thanks…Have been getting a lot people who say..hopes are high n all..this makes me believe that its not impossible !

  4. saurabh says:

    good job latika..Wish i could hep-but m sorry ur friend had me first!!

  5. Vino says:

    Ah, the innocence of youth! But life is made of dreams and youth is the time for it. Don’t grow old for that is the age when reality sets in and dreams are in the rear view mirror.

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