Guy: “Girls who have studied literature can never fall in love”

Girl: “Of course they can, the only problem is, they fall in love with fictional men, who don’t exist anymore!”

Me: DITTO!

It cannot get truer than this, when I sit and think what kind of a guy I would like to be with for the rest of my life…what kind of guy would I fall in love with…it’s the hardest thing to do! The more I think, the more I feel like I am looking for a miracle. I think the age we are at, everyone would be able to empathize with me. So let’s get it right (or at least try)

Presenting, 21 things I am looking for 😉 Someone who… 

1. Can handle my craziness (or be crazier)

or says…

2. Is my best friend before anything else 😀

3. Can make me smile & will do whatever it takes to bring it on my face…n vice verse of course 😀

4. DREAMS & believes in my dreams too!

5. Never ever thinks of letting me go

6. Can handle me at my worst!

7. Gives me small surprises every now & then 😉

8. BIG surprises sometimes as well 😀

9. Flirts with me…keeps the spark alive!

10. You Complete Me…I mean who doesn’t want this?

11. Wants to travel the world with me!

12. Says “I love you!” & means it

13. Treats me like an equal

14. Can act like a kid with me &  has no qualms admitting that he needs me as well

 

15. Loves his family, n mine too

16. Remembers everything – the smallest of details

17. Sometimes would open the door for me, appreciate me, compliment me…sometimes chivalry is needed

18. Respects and understands – the relationship, the boundaries, etc. etc.

19. Accepts mistakes – his and mine

20. Accepts me the way I am and is actually proud of it!

 

21. Finally, someone who trusts me, has a good sense of humor, reads, enjoys my company, wants to go out of the way for me, shares everything and is comfortable in being his own self!

 

These are a lot of expectations and I totally understand that. I also accept that I should have all these traits too, if I expect them in him. But I also believe in the concept that –

You should always aim for the moon, so that even if you don’t get there, you will land up somewhere among the stars 😉

Hope you enjoyed reading…all in good spirits, guys!

 

P.s.- Gif credits – all over google!